Many clients use the term ‘over-thinking’ to describe the problem they are having in their lives. It amounts to not being able to turn off their brain which is spewing out negative self-beliefs and ideas. Despite the fact that people invariably know that these thoughts are distorted, inaccurate or at the very least destructive, they feel captive to them. They feel somehow compelled to listen to these thoughts and are unable to dismiss them.
A typical description of this problem by clients is having a long list of things that are not right about themselves and their lives. This turn over and over in their mind in some kind of attempt to correct/make good these many problems. Of course nothing is resolved by this activity, only a headache.
Increasingly Mindfulness meditation is favoured by many people as a way of coping with these thoughts and putting things back into perspective. I will regularly recommend Headspace, Simply Being and other Mindfulness Apps for smartphones, which can be a useful tool in coping with this challenge.
The intervention of therapy can operate like an interruption to this process. Slowing down to take a look at the contents of the over-thinking with another person can operate as a buffer when they return. Instead of churning the thoughts around and around, there is the possibility of a introducing a new perspective which is not convinced by the thoughts. The thoughts are no longer permitted to have free reign; another view has been aligned with and thereby the client is somewhat released from the thought tyranny.